The “teens” is the most difficult stage of life… or that’s what everyone says. Parents are tired that their children, now the new young people do not listen to them… and why should they, they are beginning to understand life and make their own rules.
They setup in their mind what is best for them; they formulate their own rights or wrongs. More than not they are correct. They see over the superficial protectionist attitude of others… and so comes the realisation that how they are living the dreams that someone else has put forth for them.
Different teens have different way to come to term with this newfound insight into themselves and also everything else that encompasses them.
Some go with the flow, become the good souls… and follow blindly that is put forth them… others grow miraculously rebellious and do only what is forbidden, and then there are those who are unable to take the gravity of this whole new world and meaning put forth… and they subject themselves to one or the other abuse… drugs and alcohol being the most common.
I belonged to another category… the ones who are incredibly pampered, the ones who get the best of whatever they want and whose every idea gets the acceptance of everyone… they become the present day narcissists.
People like me, in their teens formulate some ground rules, whom to talk to, whom to meet, what is good, what is bad, etc. etc. The fact that they are correct most of the times and what they say is generally accepted by their peers, only establishes their behaviour even more.
They create a fabric of consistencies, equations and conventions. This fabric grows and self weaves stronger and stronger as they step out of their teens and encompass thempresenting them with tinted “feel good” spectacles. But this blog; today is not about me… neither about my kind.
But it is in fact about the anomaly, which shows existence at the exact time when we think we have the perfect world.
The Anomaly in my case is a person, who shattered all my “fundas” I had developed with so much time and efforts(or I should say atleast most of them). She brought forth the shallowness of my beliefs and how superficial they were in real.
No matter how hard I try now to live in the fancy world I had created for myself, at the back of the mind I know I had failed to justify all my beliefs to one person.
I may not understand the anomaly completely ever, nor may be able to change myself absolutely… and I may try to fight with her a thousand times and she may go and leave me for avenues far far away, but I can only remain indebted to the ANOMALY for showing that life has much more in its wide scopes than what I have understood till now… and that, there is a lot of distance to cover.
I wish the very best to MY anomaly… U will always be my best friend… my closest friend and I will always be there for you.
Thank You for everything.
